From the first day we had our children we have always be asked questions about them. The usual questions people have when they are curious:
Are they adopted?
Where are they from?
How long have you had them?
Was it hard to adopt?
We have always been very willing to answer the questions, hoping that other families will become interested in adopting. I always say that Adoption is one of my favorite subjects to discuss!! But we were out last week shopping for Harrison a mattress for his new big boy bed and the sales lady just made me mad!! (not that people have not done that before!!) Jason was loading the mattress when she turned to me and asked, "Are these your children?" I proudly replied, "yes!". Then she said, "I mean are they really your children?" I replied, "YES!" I guess she thought I did not know what she was implying so she then asked, "What I mean is are you really their mom?". At this point she had made me mad, and I could not believe she would be so rude (after we spent money in her store). But I wanted to make sure that she understood how I felt about her questions so I said, "Yes, I am their REAL mom, the only mom that they have had and the only one that they will ever have! But if you want to know if they are adopted you should just asked that!" She quit asking questions after that! This was not the first time I have encountered rude people! I have been asked before if the kids call me mom since I am not really their mom, or why I had those Hispanic kids with me, or why we did not just have our OWN children!! Just because I did not carry these children in my womb for 9 months (adoption pregnancy is much longer!!) does not make me any less their mom! We spend many months praying that they were healthy, longing to hold them in our arms, months worth of paperwork, thousands of dollars, sleepless nights when they are sick, and made many wonderful memories as a family (just as any other mom). I know that I am not the only adoptive mom that has encountered rude people, but I just needed to vent a little!
Jason and I were talking the other day about how people see beauty in nature God created, but some people don't see that same beauty in the multitude of races of people that God created. Giving birth to a child is a beautiful thing, as well as adopting a child. Either way, when you are a mom you are a REAL MOM!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Are you their REAL mom?
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Big Boy, Finally!!!
Harrison was also moved out of his toddler bed into a full size bed last week too! He is enjoying being a big boy!!
We are so proud of our Big Boy, he is just growing up way to fast!
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Monday, July 7, 2008
4th of July
Proud to be an American...
Jay and Harrison
Jay and Harper
Kids with their cousins, John and Richard.
Richard helping the kids swim.
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Monday, June 30, 2008
A week of Firsts...
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Monday, June 23, 2008
Our Beach Vacation
Harper was standing in front of me and could not resist taking a picture of this beautiful head of curly hair!
The kids wanted to swim in the pool, so we bought them swimmies for their arms. The girls did wonderful, Harrison just floated around (he does not want to do anything that requires a little work!).
The kids got to go to Build a Bear, and loved it! This picture is of them holding their new bears in new T-shirts.
I enjoyed my time to relax, but I mostly enjoyed watching the kids play. I look forward to many more wonderful vacations with them!!
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Sunday, June 22, 2008
Our Baby Girl turned 3!!!
Mary Elizabeth brings much joy and laughter into our home!
She got to spend one day celebrating with Nana, Pa, Aunt Angie, Aunt Alli, Cousin Ethan, and Cousin RayLee at the farm. Nana made her a beautiful Dora cake and then she got to open many presents before heading out to play on the tire swing (her favorite thing to do at the farm).
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Monday, June 16, 2008
Best Friends
The kids were asking why they could not see their friends in Georgia anymore, and I was trying to explain that we moved far away from them but they would make new friends. Mary Elizabeth then said, "I have a best friend!" (Not sure where she heard the term Best Friend.) I asked her who her best friend was and she said, "my sisser and brother, Harper and Haddy (what they call Harrison)!" Then the three of them hugged each other. It was a precious moment and I hope they always feel that way about each other (have a feeling it won't last!).
Here are a few pictures of them playing in the pool at their Mimi and PaPa's house. Hope you enjoy!!
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